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Sunday, November 29, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving!

Sadly, Thanksgiving has come and gone for 2009, and while I'm late in posting about all the things I'm thankful for I am no less thankful. We've been a little busy this past week, and actually I'm a little sick now (it's been brewing for a few days, or longer... I can always tell when I'm coming down with something - my skin breaks out as if I were back in high school and I feel really sluggish), but better late than never to profess the good things about life.

So, where to begin. What I'm thankful for. Well, I'm thankful for lots of things. Things like cats whose tongues are giant-sized, and cats who will eat their wet-food treats off of plates that are this cute:

I'm thankful for my enthusiasm for baking when everything goes very right when the taste goes right but the look not so much (these are supposed to be cookies) and yes, even when everything goes very, very wrong (if I were a perfect baker I'd be Martha Stewart, and there's only room enough for one of her in this world).

I'm thankful for my husband, who is always such a trooper. He drove two hours with me to the Atlantic Spice Company, helping me stay focused and efficient in the store, and I've never seen a sexier gas-pumper. I'll mention, too, that he's an excellent fence-mender (literally - thanks to high winds, here's before and after).

I'm thankful for family who keep me smiling and who keep me stuffed with good things to eat. Can you believe this incredible plate of food? No wonder I looked like this after cleaning my plate: I was thinking about licking the plate clean, too, since it was all so good, but since I'm thankful for family pets (and for family pets with my name), I let Rose have that pleasure.

Ah, let's see. What else am I thankful for. I am thankful for natural beauty and for tiny, efficient cars that will hopefully allow us to continue to enjoy said natural beauty for many more years to come.

Really, I'm thankful for everything. The people in my life, the things I have around me, the fact that each morning I wake up and am healthy and alive. I'm thankful that each day when I come home from work (and yes, I'm even thankful that I have a good job and can go to work each day) I can pet my cats and give Doug a hug, and wake up and do it all again the next day. We're celebrating two years this coming February, me and Doug. I'm thankful for that. So what else is there to be thankful for? Not much. Friends, family, pets, food, shelter, warmth and compassion. All of it is good, this year and every year.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

A Perrino Family Sunday

My sister, the kids, and my mom came up to visit again. This time we weren't immersed in history, but instead were at the mall. We went to Target to get some Secret Santa gifts - don't forget the baseball cards - and then headed over to the American Girl store so that my youngest niece could pick out a few things for her upcoming birthday. The rest of us were happy that Maria was happy, but... I don't know. There's something about that store that just doesn't sit well with me. They pay grown adults to comb dolls hair. There is a grown man greeting you as you walk through the door, letting you know that if you can't find what you need there are plenty of sales staff to help you. And there are. Plenty. Way too many, just there waiting to help little consumers in training spend good money on... dolls. Some may get upset that those hard-working Americans making over $250,000 may have to pay more in taxes to subsidize healthcare for those less monetarily fortunate, but I'd much rather these well-to-do folk spend their money on those less well-to-do than throw their money down the toilet by buying this American Girl stuff. But enough of my political two cents.

We couldn't leave American Girl without a group photo at the entrance (notice that Maria is in the bag. Too bad Mike wasn't in this photo - this could have been their holiday card.

After the American Girl experience, we all came back to Dedham. Maria couldn't wait to play with her new American Girl items (the bubble tub is quite the item - but it didn't come with the bathrobe for the doll!), but I had my messy yard on my mind. I went outside to rake, and the rest of the family joined me. We started out raking but this quickly devolved into leaf play: Leaves were stuffed up shirts, into faces, down pants... you name it, leaves went there. We did manage to fill about six and a half more bags of leaves (and hopefully - fingers crossed! - this is the last bout of raking for this year, which thankfully will mean we won't be raking in the below-freezing temperatures again like last year), and also managed to not poke out any eyes, or ingest leaves, or anything else terrible. I will say that with all this help it took no time to get the yard raked. Thank you, helpers! We will return the favor on Thursday, when we rake your yard in between delicious Thanksgiving courses.

Next up... Thanksgiving!

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Huzzah!

I just got home from work and don't really feel like blogging, but I'd better write about our family visit to Old Sturbridge Village before my sister and the kids come up this weekend to go to the American Girl store. There was tons of good content the last time we went there, so need to get this one out of the way.

Have you ever been to OSV? We used to go semi-regularly when I was a kid and I loved it. Still love it. Wanted to get married there, but it was too expensive, and plus, OSV was going through a bit of financial hardship and I think they had stopped offering weddings at that point. They are back now, though, as back as any kind of non-profit working museum can be, and I was so glad to get back there to enjoy all the things I loved about it as a kid.

The animals are some of the things that I enjoyed most about OSV, and they didn't disappoint this time. We had quite a few specimen to observe:
(Buttercup, the cow, was in quite a mood that day. What a hoot she was! But the oxen were also rather entertaining.) So the live animals were great, but so were the not so alive animals. We saw a butchering demo (this is mutton): and the kids had a great time letting loose some energy on the fiberglass animals: The kids learned about making shoes in the early nineteenth century and Doug enjoyed thinking about becoming a farmer, owning his own little red farmhouse and having a bunch of animals to tend.When you're at Sturbridge Village, it's easy to romanticize this kind of lifestyle and time period. What we don't witness is the stink of sweaty bodies in the dead heat of summer as the women cooked before the open fire in the kitchen, or the emptying of the chamber pots into the fly-ridden outhouse. Yuck.

One of the other romanticized moments at Sturbridge is the coach ride. Here my sister's family gets a ride on the Hartford-Worcester coach service which seems like a lot of fun when you're only riding around the village green, but spending 6 or more hours on that coach from Hartford to Worcester with potentially eight other bodies stuffed in there with you... not my idea of fun. But my idea of fun is spending as much time as possible learning about our national past, and hanging out with my sister, brother-in-law and their lovely family, and both goals were achieved that day. Do you think this should be their holiday card photo? I think it's perfect.

Monday, November 16, 2009

Just some more of my positives (probably some repeats!).

It's been a while since I blogged about the positives in my life, so I thought I'd do that today. The weekend was very enjoyable, and I even did some exercising on both days. Those two things combine to make me in a pretty up-beat mood. Jillian Michaels and her 30-day shred kick my butt pretty hard. I may add her first to the below list of things that are positive in my life right now:

* Jillian Michaels and her 30-day shred video gives me three intense workouts, each only 20-minutes long. I really like the 20-minute workout.

* Yogurt. I have said it before, but I love yogurt of all kinds. My current favorite is thick and smooth American yogurt of the Brown Cow variety.

* Babies. I know she's not mine, but little Ruby is such a nice bright spot in the world. Thanks for bringing her here, Chris and Chris! She makes me think that taking care of babies maybe isn't so scary... but I may have to spend more time with her to really make that decision :-)

* Working Museums. See forthcoming post on our visit to Old Sturbridge Village, I think a great place to spend a day. Thinking about becoming a member!

* Colonial America. Doug and I are watching the HBO John Adams miniseries, and all it has done is reinforce my interest in that era. I want to absorb all I can about the formation of our nation, and most especially, the people involved in the process.

* My house. Is it stupid to like so much something so material? But I like my house. I like the way Doug and I have made it our own (though I do not like that phrase), and the way that I come home each day and feel at home.

* Thinking about dinner. One of my favorite activities during the day (any day, whether it's a work day or a weekend day) is to think about what to eat for dinner. Even if I'm not going to be cooking the dinner, I like to think about what and where I might eat. Gives me something to look forward to, because I really like to eat, I guess.

* Books. Isn't this obvious? If only there were more time in the day to read.

* My cats. This morning I was thinking about all the things that make Sasha cute. How her face has such perfect proportions and how she is colored so well. Then she tried to jump on my lap while I was peeing. Somehow I still thought she was cute. What's wrong with me today?

* Doug. I really think I forget to tell him how much he makes me smile, so why not tell the world and him at the same time. He's a good egg, that one, especially when he's unclogging the vacuum cleaner of the sock I mistakenly sucked up last night. I don't know anyone else who can stay more patient with me.

So there. There's my list of positives for today. And every day, really, but today I just needed to share it.

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Now the fun begins!

I have been waiting for Chris to announce the arrival of little Ruby on the blogosphere, and now that she has I can blog about our visit to meet the little bundle. Despite Doug's pleas to scoop the announcement, or some such phrase that I've never heard before, I thought the announcement should come from Ruby's own parents. But now you can expect to see photos of the little bean whenever I take them, which hopefully will be often. She's quite the looker and the cameras won't be able to avoid her.

Last weekend my mom and brother were visiting, and after all the yardwork and car stuff were done on Saturday we sat down to a tasty pre-Thanksgiving turkey dinner. The phone rang as we were eating, and while we have three phones in the house none of them are ever on their carriage, so Doug had to run around and try to find one. He missed the call, but finally found one, and saw that the call was from boy Chris. Girl and boy Chris have been busy trying to prepare for their daughter these past nine months, and it is very rare that we get a call from boy Chris - I knew immediately that girl Chris was either in labor or had given birth. Doug was finally able to reach boy Chris, and of course, when Doug excitedly said, "Congratulations!", I knew - again - immediately that labor was over and the baby was born. Wouldn't get more details until Doug was off the phone, but all I needed to know was that the baby had arrived and everyone was well, which I could gather from the bits of conversation I was trying to overhear. As it just so happened, my mother, brother, Doug, and I were planning a trip to Freeport the next day, so Doug asked boy Chris if they would mind if we popped in while in their state to congratulate the happy family in person, and, of course to meet little Ruby. Luckily boy and girl Chris were amenable (thanks, guys, for being so willing to see people right after the birth!), and so after our short jaunt to Freeport we stopped by the hospital to meet Ruby.

Look at the happy new family! Boy Chris looks so much more exhausted than girl Chris, and little Ruby looks tired herself (that's a giant yawn for such a little girl!), but they both seemed in pretty good spirits despite the birth that didn't go as planned. Doug and I both got to hold little Ruby, and when you hold a baby only a day old, and so cute and warm, how can you do anything but love her? Doug was the frist to hold the little bundle: and I went next: She was swaddled so well (good job, Chris and Chris!) that we couldn't really see any more of her other than her little round face and mitten hands, until we passed her back to her eager dad and exposed a tiny baby foot in the process. Just think, someday that foot may climb Mt. Everest, or may slip into a dancing show and dance across a Broadway stage. There's no telling what those little feet will do someday, and it must be so exciting for Chris and Chris to think about all the wonderful things their daughter will do one day. For now, though, I have no doubt Chris and Chris just want to keep Ruby close, bundle her up like a human burrito and never put her down. Boy Chris is already a pro at that, and he's only going to get better. Little Ruby is very lucky indeed.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

A work post. Sort of.

I read a post on one of my favorite professional blogs this morning that really hit home for a few reasons. Reason #1: It discusses the role of the librarian as a tech-support person. Reason # 2: It moves on to a somewhat deeper level and asks librarians to consider what it means to be a professional. And Reason # 3: These (and so many more) are questions that I ask myself each day when I am out there looking at the available jobs for librarians.

So let me rant for a bit. When I was working at the Guilford Free Library, I spent a good part of my day troubleshooting the copy machine. I was not a professional, so I suppose it was okay that I was the one who was doing this. But I do know that when I was not around there would be librarians unjamming paper, or changing toner, or what have you. And at the computer work stations upstairs, which were close to the reference desk and to where the librarians would be stationed, professional librarians (meaning librarians with master's degrees) would be the ones troubleshooting the computers. Turning them off and on when they would freeze up. Checking the printer connections if they weren't printing. Defragmenting the hard-drive if something more serious went wrong. I would have to leave the circulation desk to go and fix the copier, often letting people stand there for awhile as I tried to figure out where the paper jam was, or often letting the phone ring a little too long before I ran back to try to answer it. If there were a tech support person at the library, I would not have had to do this. Neither would the librarians have had to potentially lose a reference question or an interaction with a patron while she was restarting one of the computer terminals.

Why don't many public libraries have devoted tech support positions? Budget constraints. When most public libraries can't even afford to stay open hours that are convenient to their patrons, why are they going to pay for someone to be on tech stand-by? Public librarians and those working at small, under-funded libraries have to wear many hats. That's the way these libraries have worked, are working, and will probably continue to work. Hire a librarian with a degree, because there are a few professional hats they'll have to wear, but make them wear all the other hats, too, and pay them a really low salary while at it, since the library - while championing a good cause - just doesn't have the money for a good salary. Which is why there is the question of what it actually means to be a professional librarian.

Does a professional librarian who may have (somewhat foolishly, I admit) gone to school full-time, taking out numerous student loans in the process, have to have a master's degree to do tech support? I don't remember taking Fixing the Copier 101 in school, so I'm not sure this is one of the core skills of a librarian. Yet it seems to be. Librarians want to help people, they want to connect people with free and easily accessible information, they want to provide a service to their community, they want to educate and inform. We can do a lot, we talented librarians, but do we have to do everything? Because by doing everything we are not doing any one thing well.

I have always had a steady eye on my regional job market, and the positions that appeal to me the most, that get me doing the things that I at this point in my life feel I most want to do, are the positions that also have me fixing the copy machine. They have me updating the library's website, handling any kind of software or hardware recommendations for the library, overseeing the library's technology budget, troubleshooting the computers, printers, and other electronic and digital devices, and have me managing the library's archives and genealogy collection. I'd be a web developer, IT infrastructure manager, IT director, help desk, archivist, preservationist, and genealogist, all in one. And I'd no doubt have reference desk duties and "other duties as assigned." All for the amazingly and degradingly low salary of something in the mid $30-$40K range. Maybe most librarians wouldn't complain about this - at least they'd have a full-time job, be in a professional position, and working with a community - but I am not sure that I am interested in wearing all those hats and not really being paid adequately for them. Considering what Penelope Trunk wrote about a couple of weeks ago in her blog on the gap between non-profit and for-profit jobs, I have to wonder how these kinds of libraries are attracting really good professional talent. How much can the love of the mission really sustain someone? Can the mission feed me? Am I supposed to go home at night feeling like I've done my part for the world that day because I helped someone plug their flash drive into the USB port?

Maybe. Maybe I can. Maybe I'm just venting a little too much. I mean, I really am trying to consider what it means to be a professional librarian. How much I am worth. What I really want to do. What kind of impact I want to make. Are libraries the right path for me? Have I given up before I've even started, really? Maybe showing that person how to use a flash drive is making an impact. Maybe I really am making a difference in someone's life. And maybe I don't need to own a house and pay mortgage payments. Maybe I am just over-thinking this. This is why I don't like to blog about work. All these big, life questions - very overwhelming.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Oh, right. The yard.

So much activity this past weekend! Busy weekends are good. Tiring, but good. And I'm sure you're dying to know what we did.

Saturday was yard day. My mother came up to help us with yard chores and also to act as our ride back from the car dealer (we got the car a service level three package, which meant that it had to be there for something like three hours, and because it's our only car and we didn't want to sit in the dealer for three hours waiting for it we got my mom to be our taxi). It was a good thing that my mom came up to help - we got all the planned yard chores done in no time, and we even did some that weren't planned, like work on the gutters a little and also take down the dead rose bush. I give my mother all the credit for convincing Doug to allow us to cut that down. I understand Doug's hesitation; when we moved in the rose bush was in full bloom, healthy, with tons of flowers. However, as the season wore on, the bush looked a little worse for wear, and then this year it became overgrown, diseased, and a general mess. There would be no way for us to really revive it, and it's not like we have the time or energy to maintain a rose bush (which takes a lot of skill to maintain, and we can't even remember to water the hardy mums in our window boxes). Anyway, on Saturday everyone finally came to the same conclusion that it made sense to cut down the rose bush and to think about planting something more user-friendly in its place. My mother was so excited to cut it down: And while there is a bare spot where the bush once was the side of the house looks so much better - cleaner, less cluttered. More manageable. If only we could cut down most of the trees and raze the front gardens! How I'd love to just start over with a clean slate.

Because one thing that is not clean is our yard. We have so many trees on our western property line it is not funny. Really. I know there are more, but from memory I can count six big, tall trees. Maples? Oaks? Not sure, but they are extremely tall and have too many leaves. All they do is breed spiders and keep the yard and house moist, and if I had my way we'd be cutting quite a few down. Again, thank you to my mom - and also to our lovely neighbor whose yard many of the branches from these giant trees hang over - for convincing Doug to get someone in to look at the trees and determine which ones should be trimmed back. This will greatly reduce the number of spiders and other disgusting creepy-crawlies that are all over the place, and also maybe brighten up the back yard to make the patio more appealing for outdoor furniture. But most importantly - fewer leaves! Me, my mother, and Doug were raking machines on Saturday, filling a total of twenty-two leaf bags (reduced from last year's twenty-five, but we'll still have plenty more to rake since several of our trees have leaves that haven't even turned color yet). Doug and my mom had a great system - we would all rake a pile and then Doug would hold the bag as my mother scooped the leaves into the leaf bag.We really were able to zip through the raking, finishing the whole yard in about two hours.

But, because we were on such a roll, Doug decided that he wanted to clean the gutters, so he borrowed our neighbor's ladder and set about pulling all the debris out of the gutters. He even managed to get himself onto the roof but this wasn't a great angle from which to clean the gutters so quickly got down. The neighbor children asked Doug while he was on the roof if he was afraid of heights, to which he replied no, but I'm not aware of anyone who really likes to be on roofs. People just aren't made to be that high off the ground. Much more appealing is being a few steps up on a ladder, like my mother was when she was helping us reconnect one of our gutters to our house. Look at my mom - banging nails into the side of our house like a master carpenter! My mother never ceases to amaze me with her handiness. She paints, wallpapers, does minor electrical work, carpentry... you name it, she does it. They don't make them like her anymore, do they. I sure didn't get her handiness genes, though I prefer to think that they just haven't fully developed yet.

And, not only did my mother do all of this handy work, she also cooked us a fabulous dinner that night, complete with a homemade pumpkin pie for dessert. Look what would have happened had I made the dinner and dessert - a recent creation of mine that somehow went majorly wrong. The blondies looked done on the outside, but were just as raw on the inside after thirty minutes of cooking as they were when I put them in. And I'd been doing so well! Next time I'll channel my mother when attempting something in the kitchen. Hopefully this will do the trick.

Monday, November 2, 2009

Cooking up a storm.

I cooked a lot this past weekend. Lots of good food. And I didn't burn anything. I must be getting good at this or something. On Friday I cooked some individual meat loaves, and they were surprisingly good. I modified the recipe a bit - used Italian-flavored breadcrumbs instead of plain, added garlic, some cheese - and was pleased by the outcome. That's something that you can do when you cook - be a bit creative with the ingredients. Not enough salt? Add some more. More spices? Toss some more in. Don't like breadcrumbs? Leave them out or substitute some oatmeal. That kind of thing. With baking, you can't really improvise as much. It's not like you can just leave out the flour if you don't happen to have any, or substitute some breadcrumbs for oatmeal in an oatmeal raisin cookie. It's no secret that I like to bake more than I like to cook, and this is really because I tend not to burn what I bake (and I'm also addicted to carbohydrates), but I do appreciate cooking. And the more practice the better I get at it.

I don't have a photo of the mini-meat loaves, but I do have a photo of Wyatt helping me cook the mini-meat loaves. The cats love it when I cook. They perch all around the stove. Yes, this means that there are about a pound of cat hairs in our food, but if the cats are happy being near us while we cook then so be it. A little ruffage is good for you.

I do have a photo of the chicken enchiladas that I made on Sunday night:I highly recommend the recipe (came from Real Simple, a magazine I've been pretty regularly reading lately), as it's quick and simple, and the enchiladas actually have flavor. The corn and zucchini are a nice combo, and there is plenty of Monterey Jack cheese. The cheese could have been the best part.

I also have a couple of photos of the apple brown betty I made from this great new baking cookbook that I got from Chris. She sure knows what I like, that's for sure, and it's new recipes for sweet baked goods. Apple brown betty is really simple, and it's a dessert that can probably be made a bunch of different ways. This one used breadcrumbs, butter, sugar, cinnamon, lemon juice, and lots of apples. Called for walnuts, too, but I left those out because I only had enough to use in the blondies recipe that I plan to make later this week. Plus, yesterday while I was riding in the car with Doug I was thinking about how much I like him, so I decided to make him something appley for dessert, and since he's not a huge nut fan I thought I'd leave them out. He can enjoy his special Doug desserts (the pumpkin beer is a nice fall touch) and I'll savor the less-fruity-more-nutty ones.

Speaking of thinking about how much you like someone, I want to send out some happy anniversary wishes to Chris and Chris, who are celebrating their second anniversary tomorrow. Today my parents, tomorrow Chris & Chris. November is a great month for weddings. My mother said that her wedding day was beautiful - unseasonably warm and bright sun. Chris and Chris had a memorable day, too - rainy and a bit of a hurricane. Very fitting weather, I thought, for their beautiful fall-themed day. Made everything feel that much more cozy and intimate inside their fantastic location. In looking back through some photos that I have of the day, I thought this one was particularly fun: Chris looks so happy to show off his ring, and soon he'll have his daughter to show off. My, how time flies! Happy anniversary, guys.

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Happy Halloween.

Doug and I don't really ever do anything for Halloween. I was reminiscing yesterday, Halloween, about how one of the only times I dressed up for Halloween as an adult I was a, how do you say, "lady of the night." Yes, I was a prostitute. I was in college, I was trying to do the whole wearing-a-costume-allows-me-to-bring-out-the-wilder-side-of-me thing, and I wore a silver mini-skirt, fishnet tights, very high heels, and a pink sweater. And make-up. Lots of pink lipstick, I remember. I think the thought of that costume put dressing up in a negative light for me. Not that the costume was that bad, but that the prostitute was the best costume I could think of. I feel a lot of pressure around Halloween costumes. Getting a good one. Getting a creative one. An original one. Lots of performance anxiety. So now my preferred line of attack on Halloween is to get a couple bags of candy and stay at home to hand it out to all the little neighborhood kids. Last year we had quite a few Dorothies from the Wizard of Oz come to our door. This year... well, this year we weren't home to give out candy. We were at a dinner at friends (my former manager's house. One of my "staff" was there, too. Made for a bit of an awkward scene when the topic of work came up, which it didn't too much actually, and if that was a conscious decision on someone's part I thank you), but I did see quite a few kids walking down the street as we were driving to Brookline. I think I saw the dead football player from the Beetlejuice movie. See? Now that's what I'm talking about with a creative costume.

Of course, just because I don't like a Halloween costume for myself doesn't mean that I don't like one for the cats, so yesterday, in honor of the holiday, I put Wyatt in his jester hat again, because the other cats refused to wear it and Wyatt, being the dope that he is, pretty much will let me do whatever I want to him.We have another video of him wearing the hat, this time while he's eating, but I will refrain from embedding the video into the blog. That may be a little Wyatt the Jester overkill. So, to balance out the Wyatt the Jester time, let's look at a photo of the stately Meg as she surveys the beautiful fall day that was Halloween (so warm! so windy!) and let's also take a look at Sasha, who was loving the little pumpkin that Doug and I finally got yesterday (thank goodness the grocery store had them, otherwise we would have gone the whole season without a pumpkin). I tell you, these cats - they really are a photogenic bunch.

So today, November 1. What to do? There's a holiday vendor fair at the Endicott Estate that I want to go to (there's a Tupperware vendor - very exciting). Perhaps I'll do some more organizing of my recipes, and Doug and I may hit an afternoon movie. We've been wanting to see A Serious Man, but then heard last night that Where the Wild Things Are is supposed to be good, too. Of course, once I go to Target (must get a few things... why do I always forget to do at least one errand on errand day, turning both weekend days into errand days...) I may get stuck out of the house for good. I have to get my mother and father an anniversary card. They don't really celebrate their anniversary, but I always like to give them a card. They have been married forty-one years this year tomorrow, so that should be noted somehow. My card will be late, though. November sneaked up on me. But better late than never. So in honor of my mother and father's anniversary, I'll close with a photo of a photo of my mom and dad at a party somewhere in CT before they were married. My mother was a hip looking woman, and my dad looked relaxed (and had a full head of hair). Seeing photos of my parents as young people always fascinated me. Still does. Makes you realize that your parents are people, too, something that's hard for kids no matter how old they are. Anyway, happy anniversary!